As I note regularly in the Deconstructing Anxiety model*, anxiety is at the source of any problem. This is a bold claim, I realize, but with the “digging for gold“ process, anyone can prove this to themselves. By starting with a randomly chosen problem, they can go...
You are shattered. You’ve just learned your partner has betrayed you. Perhaps it was an infidelity, perhaps a secret has been discovered. Your relationship anxiety is at an all-time high. What are the tools you need to rebuild trust in a relationship after a betrayal?...
There is no shortage of advice on how to get free of anxiety and stress—everything from taking deep breaths to snapping rubber bands on your wrist. The problem is, most don’t make any lasting change. But those that do all have one thing in common. This is the...
In his book “Learning to Fly” (Broadway Publishing, 2000), Sam Keen describes his adventures taking up the trapeze at age 60! He wanted to feel fully alive and knew he’d have to break out of his routine of safety and predictability to get that feeling. So he...